There have been many debates in the lifestyle about single males, and whether or not they are actually in the lifestyle of swinging or not. Though I have been a participant in the lifestyle for many years (11) as a single male swinger, I don't really consider myself as a swinger. The reason is .. I don't have a partner to share, and that is what the lifestyle of swinging is about.
It is ok to be a participant in the lifestyle but you've gotta know and understand the rules of swinging with couples. I have heard nightmare stories of many single males trying to contact couples. Most either don't have their profile filled out on the internet, don't know how to have a decent conversation, or just have no clue about the lifestyle....and many more things might I add. We should appreciate the opportunity to have a good time with them and show the couple the respect that they deserve. Just because a lady enjoys sex, don't make her a slut.
I'd like to make things easier for the single males:
Rules for the single males:
#1. This is the number one rule in the lifestyle. No means No. It deals with the initial conversation with the couple. If they are not interested, don't persue it. Stop immediately
#2. If you are on the internet and looking for people to party with, make sure to read their profile thoroughly. Don't just contact them, because many of you know that there are couples out there not looking for single males.
#3. Your initial contact with the couple should not be sending a picture of your "dick".. that sends the wrong signal immediately. What are you telling them, that you are a "dick?". If your profile is filled out correctly, you will have a face photo. If not, then send a face photo. Make sure to let them know about you... not just about sex. Actually who you are and what you like to do.
#4. Don't ask to webcam. So many couples get that from guys. Especially guys with no profiles. If a couple wants to webcam with you, they will ask you.
#5. Find out what their likes and dislikes are . Not only sexually, but what their hobbies are.
#6. Don't push to meet them. They will decide when they want to meet you. You might let them know that you are interested in meeting sometime in the future, but don't push the issue. Let them decide when the best time is. Don't expect them to drop everything in their life to meet you that day. Do you realize how many single males contact a couple in a day????!!!! C'mon, what makes us think we are so special.
#7. Want a wall built immediatly. Just ask a wife or the female part of the couple to meet you alone without the male counterpart. You will have an immdiate dropped conversation, and will never be talked to again. Don't ask a man's wife to meet you alone. If after meeting with them for awhile and partying; they ask you to do it, it's ok. But don't ever suggest it.
Overall, we just need to understand that having an opportunity to have fun in the lifestyle is great, and we shouldn't take advantage of it. Just be nice, and be yourself. Single males will always be scrutinized in the lifestyle, but there is always an opportunity to have fun with couples. It takes time and patience.
Hope you all enjoyed the reading
Jack Robinson
"alias" Jack b Dirty
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Jack,
Thank you... Now if we could get more than 1 in 100 single males out there to read your post we could sign in on yahoo or aol without being invisible.
Honestly though, it's very comforting to hear a single male voice some of the major problems that couples face when dealing with single males.
One other thing to add...
If you are a married male, and playing alone, you aren't a single male, you're a cheater. The lifestyle is about sharing and having fun, it is really difficult when you start a friendship with a lie.
If anyone wants to see what we look like, or say hi, we're on SLS, ClubDH, and yahoo on this name.
Thanks again Jack,
and with an attitude like yours, feel free to say hi anytime
Jack,
Thanks for commenting on that issue. We will make sure to post to the blog. I think that guys like you make the lifestyle a little bit easier to stand.
Don't forget to join my group.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/itsjustmacy
couldnt have said it better ourselves!
I'm a single male. I understand completly. I'm just trying to make friends and enjoy life and I hope to find a partner.
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